S2 Ep6: Make your dreams real by Skills Stacking for monotropism + distinction depth

Like many late-identified autistic / AuDHD / ADHD folks, a foggy, porous, unstructured sense of self; illusions, fantasies, pipe dreams... was my predominant experience of myself, until I learned to take EFFECTIVE, STRUCTURED ACTION. That action has to be structured a certain way for it to be effective. I couldn't do things the way other people did them nor follow their ideals, without losing myself. "falling into holes" In finding what has worked for me, I've adapted a concept that makes a strength out of my need to go deep; my monotropic tendencies; my need for distinction depth; A way of structuring ACTION, called 'skills stacking'. And this week's podcast episode is about why this works. Focusing on the next skill / system / sensorial groove until it is established, STACKING them one by one, has given me the material experience  of my own agency, boundaries, and effectiveness (the antidote to a porous self) and helped me to build belief, clarity and unconscious competence for my big impossible dreams at speed. I hope it serves you too. Subscribe to the mailing list HERE ___________ TRANSCRIPT ___________ The Unmasking Unschool Podcast is for autistic visionaries, creatives and change-makers. Who are seeking to exit the burnout cycles, pathology paradigms, masks and self-negations of the past that keep you stuck, and want to realise the self-reinventions, life pivots and culture-shifting projects to become your boldest most authentic self. Hosted by Louisa Shaeri, artist, coach, cultural activator, founder of SOLA Systems. Learn more at solasystems.xyz