S1 Ep17: 17. Committing to possibility: the courage to live boldly in your truth

Are you on my mailing list, sibling? Join here solasystems.xyz for email broadcasts from The SOLA System to help you work to cultivate the self-clarity, self-acceptance and pride to BE who you are. The SOLA System + Siblings, the 6 month online 'unmasking unschool' guiding you on a journey through The SOLA System, alongside a community of siblings to share the journey with. Learn more: solasystems.xyz/siblings Episode summary: Is there an internal reality that you know about, but you haven’t enacted the decisions to make it real on the outside? Because you know it will change things. Be it a way of expressing yourself, or your sexuality or your gender or your cognitive style, or identity, or a role in the world, or a belief or cause that you have strong feelings about, or a way or offering something to the world as a vocation, or a family decision or a home decision, or a relationship decision... Committing to POSSIBILITY - means to commit to something for which you have no experience for yet. No certainty about how it will go down - in other words, what will happen and how other people will react. How you will react to their reaction. That lack of evidence means it’s very hard to feel certain about doing it. The doubt and fear become reasons not to act. So how can you start taking action towards possibility when you don’t have full belief? When you aren’t sure you can handle what happens, if it will work out, or if you will do it? By committing. Commitment is a line in the sand that creates a before and after. Commitment is created in the heart space of self connection; with the courage to FEEL all the emotional truth of where you are at; both negative - regret, disappointment, envy… and positive (just as uncomfortable): desire, want, a secret dream. Allowing yourself the safety in your own body to FEEL it all, means you can no longer hide from your truth. That radical truth telling creates commitment to being in integrity with your truth, no matter what. When you establish that depth of self connection, you create a kind of commitment that ignites belief. Because maintaining that integrity in your actions matters more than the results. And your actions grow your belief. You then get to WATCH your life re-shuffle around the truth of who you are becoming: A life full of the boldness and magic of being true to YOU. ________ The sensory siblings podcast is hosted by Louisa Shaeri, and beaming to you from the The SOLA System + Siblings, the liberatory framework and unmasking unschool for creative, late identified autistic folks who are seeking another way to see, know and be yourself. This is a radical reimagining of what is possible when we redefine ourselves from within; by unlearning who we are not, making self connection our goal, activating the languages of our sensory oriented perception, and creating the culture shifts to activate futures + selves. It all starts within. TRANSCRIPT _____________________ Head over to solasystems.xyz where you can activate your membership in the free + Siblings community, hosted on Discord. To find out more about The SOLA System + Siblings, the 6 month online 'unmasking unschool', go to solasystems.xyz/siblings