149. Stop Trying to Have Sex Like a Man!

Suzanne talks about how casual sex affects women drastically different than it affects men. IN THIS EPISODE: 1:20  Suzanne reads from Loose Girl, a book that analyzes in great detail the emotions that accompany what most young women experience when they engage in casual sex 2:27  The average guy who partakes in casual sex doesn't ruminate over who he has sex with or why he did it 3:00  Many young women have sex to feel attractive and desirable 4:30  Feeling used, or like a “booty call,” is the number one experience for women who have casual sex 5:00  Biology dictates that women carry the brunt of sexual risk while men wield the sexual power 5:25  The relationship between women and men took a nosedive when women (en masse) began having sex “like a man”— casually, with no commitment. 6:20  In generations past, commitment always preceded sex 8:10  Sex for women is NOT the same as it is for men 8:30  Even the most sexually liberal woman is surprised to learn she cannot detach the way men can 10:00  Suzanne reads stories from women who've had a lot of casual sex 17:25  A hookup doesn’t lead to the relationships women crave (MeToo movement) 18:50 - It's modern gender norms, not traditional ones, that have lead to the problems between men and women regarding casual sex 20:20  The MeToo Movement speaks to women's weakness to casual sex

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TIRED OF THE LIES AND THE SPIN perpetuated in the culture about men and women, sex and love, marriage and motherhood? If so, get ready to hear hard-hitting truths that will make you cry out “Yes! Finally someone tells it like it is!” In her signature no-nonsense style, author and relationship coach Suzanne Venker offers support, motivation, and countercultural guidance on how to prioritize love and family and build strong relationships at home.