146. Is Porn Ruining Your Relationship?: Quit Porn Strategist King David

"King David" is a young man with a big dream: to burn down the $97 billion worldwide porn industry, one man at a time. King David is the world’s only Quit Porn Strategist. His history with porn dates to his teenage years and before; and though he's out of his teens now, every year more young men are still discovering the world of porn. David wants to help them find the exit. His website is https://enroll.quitpornstrategies.com/. IN THIS EPISODE: 3:25   David's story 19:30  Porn is a drug 21:00  Porn increases dopamine and is a super-stimulus, which is why it's so appealing 25:25  You don't watch porn because you're horny; you watch it because you're hurting 25:40  There's a difference between wanting to have sex and wanting to watch porn 28:20  Asking yourself why and getting to the root of it is crucial to get rid of any addiction 30:00  You have to actually VOCALIZE to yourself about why you want to watch porn 35:00  Young men growing up w/ porn do not realize that that's not what sex with a woman is truly like 35:40  How porn changes your view of sex and women 38:30  Women feel like they're being objectified when their man uses porn 39:40  How can a husband determine if he’s done w/ porn for good? And how will a woman know when he really is done watching porn? 42:00  Men and women need to understand what each other needs sexually 44:50  If you're married and you have to think about porn when you have sex, you have a problem! 46:10  It is NOT TRUE that porn is good for you and your relationship 47:00  38% of  millennial women (under 40) have experienced choking, gagging, or spitting during consensual intercourse 49:00  With porn you always need more “exciting” and “more extreme” 50:20  There's no communication in porn 51:50  One-third of all porn viewers are women 52:30  Women need to know that men don’t turn to porn because YOU as a woman lack something 56:40  Couples need to communicate about sex 59:00  David's 31-day Quit Porn Mastery Program

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