3:29 - Why This World Champion Dancer Quit To Save His Future Family with Alex Gomez

I asked Alex to be on my show after hearing his experience in church! He talked about making significant lifestyle changes that would put him on a different track in life. Knowing that change is often a necessity when creating an intentional family culture, I felt like Alex's experience would impact some of you who may be undergoing changes in your family. Alex's story is awesome! He felt compelled to change because he had his future family in mind. When he considered the direction he was going, he couldn't see his life going anywhere if he stayed on the same path. At first, change was hard. He felt awkward. But, with time he was able to feel good about the changes he was making! More than this, Alex learned the importance of having a vision. He and his wife sit down regularly to discuss where they want to be sixty years into the future, and then work their way back. They evaluate where they are on their path, and then they make adjustments as needed. When I asked Alex what legacy means to him, he shared an incredible experience as a missionary for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. There are many reason members of the Church serve missions. Alex knew it was something he needed to do for his own reasons. But, what he learned from his Mission President has stayed with him and impacted his reason for doing everything in his life. Best Practices Focus on the feeling you want to cultivate in your home. Alex didn't remember particular teachings or activities his parents did that he wanted to replicate, he wanted the feeling he remembers having when growing up in a home where he felt loved, where he could grow, and feel the Spirit. Cultivate a vision that will motivate you to live intentionally. Alex had an epiphany that if he kept living the way he was living as a dancer, he would be stagnant and if he had a family, they would be miserable. He kept the vision of his happy family in his mind throughout the changes he endured. He and his wife evaluate their vision regularly now. Change is gradual. It takes dedication and commitment, and learning from obstacles and failure. Legacy is making an impact on those around you, and on future generations. You'll know you've done well when your children and grandchildren model your values. Join the Family Success Toolkit Free Membership http://homeandfamilyculture.com