A Self-Talk Tweak to Boost the Odds of Achieving Your Goals

My daughter and I have been binge-watching past seasons of The Amazing Race for some months now, and the psychology nerd in me has become increasingly fascinated by one particular aspect of the show. The participants’ self-talk. As in, what do participants say when they run into a task that feels impossible or beyond their abilities? “I can’t” When participants start saying “I can’t,” they often stop trying and appear to be on the verge of quitting altogether. After all, “can’t” is a pretty d...