Sara Kuburic On The 3 Hard Relationship Truths You Need To Hear So That You Can Successfully Find Love In 2023

Today's guest is Sara Kuburic. Sara is an existential psychotherapist and many of you know her as @millennial.therapist on Instagram and this is her third time on the podcast. Sara is also a writer as well as a columnist for USA Today. I know I've said this before, but what I love about Sara’s content is that she takes complex issues that can be hard to talk about such as mental health, relationships, and dating and creates content around these topics that's easy for people to understand and digest. I think you're really gonna appreciate this episode as we kept it super organic and we covered a lot of ground on dating, relationships and so much more.   What to Listen For:   00:00 Intro 01:32 Hard Relationship Truth #1 02:50 Which relationship needs are your responsibility?  05:19 “The degree of vulnerability dictates the degree of intimacy.” 08:31 Hard Relationship Truth #2 11:08 Why does personal accountability often get overlooked?  14:54 Taking responsibility for your behavior after a breakup 16:48 I’ve been cheated on and we broke up. Now what?  19:35 Sara’s thoughts on monogamy 22:41 Sara and I get personal 26:13 Hard Relationship Truth #3 27:37 How to stop self sabotaging 32:08 Communicating your needs to a potential partner 35:10 Why are so many people single?  39:00 When actions and words are misaligned  42:18 How to identify your “red flags” 44:25 Traits of a “high value partner” 49:02 Mistakes people make when setting boundaries 52:29 Is Blaming your parents helpful? 55:49 When is it time to breakup? 58:05 Do THIS not THAT after a breakup 1:04:54 How to not be so hard on yourself  Episode Resources:   Connect with Sara   Instagram Website Twitter Follow me on Social Media: LinkedIn Instagram Twitter     Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices