289 - How to Be Unapologetically You in Your Business

Sometimes, inspiration comes from the car, so today I’m bringing another important reminder for you from behind the steering wheel. As I am working with amazing clients, I’m seeing myself mirrored back at me. And sometimes that feels uncomfortable! I credit a lot of my success and happiness to becoming aware of how I was hanging on to old patterns through the inner child work I have done and continue to do. But no matter how much work I’ve done, my inner child pops up for me. Has this ever happened to you? All of a sudden, those old needs to fit in, to be validated or accepted from the outside, just come out of nowhere! So this episode is all about what I do in the situations that these old patterns still come through and what you may need in those moments the most.   Show Notes: [1:29] – Initially when Elyse did inner child work, she was skeptical but remained open to it. [4:01] – Although she credits a lot of her success to the inner child work she has already done, Elyse explains that it is a continuous journey and things still pop up for her. [5:48] – Elyse shares some of the details of her upbringing that impacted her mindset. [7:17] – There was always a part of Elyse that wanted to fit in but she felt like she couldn’t when she was growing up. [10:03] – No matter how much work we do on ourselves, these things can still come up but maybe in more subtle ways. [11:17] – The transformation is an inner shift. [14:08] – When this desire to fit in or things you are seeking from outside of yourself, you can acknowledge your inner child and tell her that it’s okay. [16:05] – Sometimes Elyse sees herself mirrored in her clients, especially when she sees other women seek validation outside of themselves. [17:20] – The tactical part is the easy part. It’s the inner work that makes the quantum leap and it is much harder.   Links and Resources: Your First Six Figures Masterclass  Join the $10K Club Apply for the $50K Club  ElyseArcher.com DM me on Instagram @elysearcher