148 - How to Keep Going When the Evidence Isn’t There Yet

Sometimes when we are working towards a goal, especially a big one, it takes a while to see the progress. We become used to hitting our goals pretty easily but when we get to the point that the goal is bigger than we ever imagined possible, they sometimes feel out of reach. Remember that the goal is stretching you and when we set that next level goal, it might feel like nothing is happening.    This juicy topic was inspired by recent client conversations. Everyone in this community is going for goals that are big and it is important to know that the only failure is giving up. The goal is not too big. In this episode we dive into why you could be holding yourself back by not seeing things as happening now, setting goals that are not in alignment, or simply not understanding the cycle or season you are in. But one thing is for certain: you can hit that goal and you will. Show Notes: [2:58] - Sometimes when you exceed what you expected, it is difficult to see what’s next. [4:11] - When things don’t happen quickly with your goal, it is tempting to give up and see this as a failure. [5:17] - You could be holding yourself back from being prosperous and abundant by trying to skip levels. [6:53] - The only failure is giving up. [8:14] - Things are cyclical and seasonal. [9:36] - All seeds have a gestation period, including your ideas and goals. [11:04] - Like a pregnancy, there’s not much action and effort until the end. [13:24] - Also like a pregnancy, if things don’t happen in the time frame you plan on, you approach things differently. [14:27] - Don’t adjust the goal. Adjust the date. [16:03] - If you think of things as happening in the future, it will always be in the future rather than right now. [17:28] - How do you know that the goal is on its way? Is it really in alignment? [18:23] - If you feel good about the goal, it is on its way, even without evidence. [20:21] - Your hormones are cyclical and that impacts your motivation and goals. [21:30] - If you want to speed up your goal, you get more details when you feel good. [22:56] - When we do inner work and feel like the goal is already done, it feels natural to have a new reality. [24:27] - A belief is a thought that you think again and again. [25:30] - You have to have faith and understand what is happening. [27:05] - Signs don’t precede, they follow. [28:54] - Don’t wait for a sign to start. All you need is the desire. [29:42] - Ask what is one thing you can do to move things along. [31:12] - If your downloads and nudges don’t make any sense, you are still responsible to follow them. [32:37] - Act from the standpoint of things already being done.   Links and Resources: Instagram  |  LinkedIn  |  YouTube She Sells with Elyse Archer Home Page