What If Your Jealousy Isn’t the Problem — But the Point?

There’s a reason we love the villainesses in movies!There’s a part of you that doesn’t want to be the princess — she wants to be the witch. The one who takes up space. The one who owns her power, even if others find it dangerous. The one who doesn’t care what anyone thinks.Let’s be honest — wouldn’t there be a thrill in being her for just a moment?That dark feminine energy — the rage, the jealousy, the desire to dominate — is not shameful. It’s not a problem. It’s part of you. The question isn’t whether it’s good or bad — the question is, can you feel it without judging it?We all want to protect what’s ours. We all want to be chosen. And when something threatens that — whether it’s another woman, an unspoken fear, or an old wound — the part of us that would burn it all down rises to the surface. Not because we’re bad, but because we’re alive.If you suppress it, it doesn’t go away — it just turns inward and becomes shame.Shame for wanting. Shame for feeling.Shame for being too much.And that shame is what disconnects us from intimacy, not the feelings themselves.So let yourself love the part of you that is jealous. The part that’s furious. The part that would claw for love. She’s not evil. She’s trying to protect you. She wants to be seen. Let her come forward — and then choose how you want to respond. That’s power.True feminine power doesn’t come from being nice.It comes from being whole.On Siren Island  — we’re reclaiming wholeness.It’s my official community and Feminine Energy Sanctuary, with live classes, a full curriculum, and personalized coaching. Inside, you’ll learn how to access your softness without losing your power — and how to show up in love as your whole self.Siren Island is here:https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/siren-island-community-program/Love, Rori