The Impact of Grief, Gratitude, and Chaos on Love and Connection

All these feelings can feel overwhelming, and our first instinct is often to shift into masculine energy—organizing, solving, controlling. But what if we didn’t? Instead, imagine embracing the chaos and creativity within you. What if being “all over the place” wasn’t something to fix, but something to own? You could say, “Oh yeah, I’ve got a lot going on—I’m a creative!” When you embrace your feelings and let yourself simply be,you unlock a sense of peace and focus that can’t be forced. Think about this: sitting with your child or grandchild, completely present, as they play with something as simple as a piece of tape. That’s meditation. That’s feminine energy in action. You’re not trying to control or interrupt the moment—you’re just being. When you allow yourself to get to that place of presence, everything shifts. You start noticing when you’re interrupting yourself or when old patterns pull you out of the moment. And when you stay in the moment, something magical happens: your energy becomes irresistible. He won’t be able to resist you—not because you’re chasing him, but because your feminine energy invites him in. If you’d like some personal help working with your grief or the grief of your man come join me on Siren Island, The Official Rori Raye Community: https://www.coachrori.com/lp/siren-island-program/ Love, Rori