E13: The Tale of the Red Scarf

Gwen had so many red flags when she started dating Nihm that she could have made a scarf long enough to wrap around her house! She tells the tale of those red flags that Nihm was a scoundrel before their marriage, and how 25 years later, she has perspective of why she ignored all those flags and married him anyway.  Gwen helps us not have shame about the red scarves we may have created or staying in a toxic abusive relationship for too long, and she advises on what to do with these long red scarves.  Come on up to Gwen's porch to listen to this vulnerable and flowing tale. Honorable Mention: Enneagram quizzes and descriptions can be found on the Enneagram Institute webpage or through a quick google search