013: What it Means to be LGBTQIA+ and African - W/ The Solar Wilsons (Part 1)

In honor of Pride Month, members of the LGBTQIA+ community dust off their rainbow flags and douse themselves in glitter with parades, festivals, and concerts across the globe but not in our African Countries and communities where the LGBTQIA+ community is extremely marginalized, criminalized, and discriminated against on the daily basis. In this Episode 13 {Part 1}, we had a very impactful conversion with The Solar Wilsons (the first Nigerian born-out legally married lesbian couple in the US) as we spark uncomfortable, but very necessary, conversations that challenge how we treat the LGBTQIA+ in the African community. [00:01 – 02:35] Opening Segment Introduction of guest and topic [02:36 – 21:30] The Wilsons’s Story The Wilson’s share their story – on discovering their sexuality as lesbians. How they came out to the world. The loss of friends and family relations. The support of some family members. The welcoming support of the LGBTQIA+ community. [21:30 – 43:40] The Love Story & Wedding How they met and fell in love  The Viral Wedding that took over the internet in Nigeria How they overcame the attacks, betrayals, and abuse. How the Church treats the LGBTQIA+ community. Tweetable Quotes: “What I found out is that 80% of the 10% of Africans who are LGBTQIA+ are actually in the closet and most of them are actually married to the opposite gender.” – The Wilsons “We’re Christian LGBQTIA+ people but when we came out, we were church shopping because every church you go to, you’re met with a different kind of hatred.” – The Wilsons Contact The Wilsons: The Solar-Wilson Village: https://www.solar-wilsonvillage.com/ The Wilsons Email - [email protected] Moji Solar-Wilson on Social Media: Instagram - @mojisworld1 Facebook - Moji Solar-Wilson You can reach out to Patience on Facebook or Instagram. Support the Free Minds Foundation, visit their Facebook page. LEAVE A REVIEW and tell us what you think about the episode so we can continue putting out great content just for you! You can connect with us on Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, Twitter, or send us an email at [email protected]. Check out our website www.livingafricanpodcast.com for more resources and to learn more. You can connect with Anyoh on Facebook (@anyohf), Instagram (@anyohfombad), and Twitter (@anyohfombad).  

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Living African is a podcast that sparks hard conversations that challenge questionable cultural and societal norms, which threaten the wellbeing of the African community. The host, Anyoh Fombad, features various African guests who share their stories from heart-wrenching to exciting experiences growing up in Africa and the diaspora. By normalizing these open discussions, Anyoh hopes to encourage Africans to show their strength through vulnerability, as well as use their voices to challenge each other to be more understanding, accepting, and tolerant of each other and bring value to their community.