First Date Sabotage, Fatphobia & Grammy Girlies

In this episode, we dive into the often-overlooked topic ofinternalized fatphobia—how it manifests, its impact on self-worth, and the ways it shows up in dating. I’ll share personal stories about my dad and sister, their struggles with obesity, and how those experiences shaped my own views on body image and attraction.We’ll also introduce a concept called"boomerasking"—a communication style that might be sabotaging your first-date conversations without you even realizing it. Are you unknowingly making potential connections feel like job applicants instead of romantic prospects? Let’s break it down.This episode is a must-listen if you’ve ever felt conflicted about attraction and body image, struggled with family influences on dating preferences, or wondered why some conversations feel so forced. Tune in for an honest, thought-provoking discussion!LISTEN TO FULL EPISODESJoin our community as a paid subscriber to listen to full episodes. You’ll receive access to weekly members-only podcast episodes, advice posts, and other bonus content.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show/dateologycoach/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Connect with us:⁠⁠⁠⁠Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Christan’s Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠ & Threads @thechristanm⁠⁠⁠Tiktok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Youtube⁠⁠