073: What Your Pastor Won't Tell You About Church Discipline... But EVERY Christian Should Know

What if everything you thought you knew about church discipline was wrong? Many pastors avoid talking about the truth behind church discipline, leaving Christians confused, misinformed, or even spiritually harmed when it’s applied incorrectly.In this video, we’re uncovering what most pastors won’t tell you—the real purpose of church discipline, where churches get it wrong, and how the Bible actually teaches us to handle sin, correction, and accountability in a way that restores and protects, not destroys.🚨 We’ll cover:✅ Why church discipline often fails—and how it should actually work✅ The biggest church discipline mistakes pastors make✅ What the Bible REALLY says about church discipline ✅ How to recognize when church discipline is being misused💬 Have you ever seen church discipline done well? Or have you experienced it being abused? Let’s talk in the comments!Find out more about the Spiritual Abuse Institute and the Church Disrupted Podcast at https://www.spiritualabuse.institute/.Want to support SAI financially?https://donorbox.org/sai-initial-funding-campaignJoin the church disrupted COMMUNITY here: https://discord.gg/nbWwg8Sz6ZLearn more about the Safe Church Pledge Here: https://www.spiritualabuse.institute/safechurchpledgePlease Subscribe and Share!Chapters:00:00 Introduction: The Misunderstood Biblical Teaching00:47 The Importance of Church Discipline01:16 Jesus' Warning in Matthew 18:603:13 The Biblical Guide to Church Discipline03:31 Misconceptions About Church Discipline04:17 Understanding Matthew 18:15-2007:21 The Role of Witnesses in Church Discipline08:37 Public Correction and Its Implications15:33 Paul's Approach to Church Discipline15:46 The Case of the Corinthian Church20:12 The Broader Impact of Sin in the Church21:35 Paul's Instructions on Handling Sin26:10 Restoration After Discipline29:28 Rebuking Church Elders30:14 Establishing Credibility Before Accusing Elders31:09 Public Reprimand as a Deterrent31:45 Historical Context of Elders in the Church33:11 Case Studies and Modern Examples34:07 The Importance of Public Rebuke35:16 Scriptural Basis for Public Rebuke39:06 Misinterpretations and Correcting Divisions42:12 Examples of Public Rebuke in Scripture51:28 Practical Takeaways for Modern Church Discipline58:23 Final Thoughts and Viewer EngagementFair Use Disclaimer:This video may contain copyrighted material the use of which has not always been specifically authorized by the copyright owner. All clips used are protected by the Fair Use Doctrine within Title 17 of the United States Code. This doctrine safeguards the use of copyrighted material for transformative purposes, such as commentary, criticism, review and news reporting. Under Title 17 U.S.C. § 512(f), any person who makes a false, bad faith, or misleading copyright claim or uses a copyright takedown to infringe on free speech, criticism, or commentary can be held liable for damages to the content creator.Hosseinzadeh v. Klein, 276 F.Supp.3d 34 (S.D.N.Y. 2017); Equals Three, LLC v. Jukin Media, Inc., 139 F. Supp. 3d 1094 (C.D. Cal. 2015).